In Her Own Words
About her
I’m new to this process, widowed just before covid, looking for companionship first, then see what develops from there. Hoping for initial coffee chat rather than long winded messaging, personal interaction preferred. Not interested in long distance relationships (sorry). Working full time. Important things for me are honesty, family & friends, an enquiring mind, consideration for others, and openness. Turn offs are rudeness, arrogance, and sulking ! Photos from 2023/4
About her ideal match
Someone who is honest and straightforward, interesting and interested in others, who enjoys the good things in life, with a positive and sunny disposition
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Merton, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
East Sussex; Hampshire; Kent; London - Inner; London - Outer; Surrey; West Sussex (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Mystery |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Meditation; Music; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Chess; Cricket; Rugby; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Close Connections: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |