In His Own Words
About him
An educated professional who’s taken a few slings and arrows along life’s road — and learned to laugh at most of them. I’d like to think I’m a warm, open, and ethical soul with wide-ranging interests in music, electronics, publishing, and film. I’m definitely not a one-page read — more of a multi-chapter story with a few twists — but for the right partner, I hope it’s an enjoyable and maybe even cathartic read.
Young in spirit, spontaneous, and optimistic. I’m told I’m interesting, caring, generous and make a good companion on a dull, rainy afternoon, especially if there’s a dog involved. (You do have a dog, right? …. with four legs?) Occasionally reflective, sometimes assertive, always affectionate. Perhaps a touch eccentric, but certainly not barking mad — unless it’s a full moon, in which case all bets are off.
My journey’s seen me wear a few hats — teacher, musician, producer, entrepreneur, marketing exec. You might call me a creative type with a techy streak, or maybe just someone who’s curious about everything. Either way, I try not to take myself too seriously.
So here I am, exploring cyberspace in search of someone with that certain ... je ne sais quoi!
About his ideal match
You’re probably not too addicted to soaps or labels, and more likely to read a good book than watch the box. You value the outdoors, healthy living, and the arts. You feel comfortable in your own skin — stylish, a touch bohemian, maybe with a dash of rock ’n’ roll edge.
You’re intelligent, confident, and see the glass as half full. You take life as it comes but know it’s not a rehearsal. You value emotional connection but don’t need someone to complete you — just someone to share the adventure and make memories with. Honesty, integrity, and emotional openness matter to you.
You’re a warm, tactile person with a sense of humour and compassion for the serious side of life. (Bonus points if you’ve got a border collie. If you’re into pink, giant toads we may need to talk.)
As for celebrity — not really my thing, unless you insist on making an exception for me. In which case, fan mail will be handled with utmost professionalism :-)
PS: Do not mail a dog to garner favour. The wine drinking border collie (pic No. 4) insisted I add this — 'a dog is for life, not just for dating sites.'
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Sevenoaks, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
78 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
East Sussex; Essex; Hampshire; Kent; Suffolk; Surrey; West Sussex (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
67 - 78 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 1" (154cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Opera; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Birdwatching; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Flying / Gliding; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Flirting; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Close Connections: |
Hopeful; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |







